Our couples shower is saturday early afternoon. My dad's gf called to see if they could bring her daughter who is 11. Honestly I don't want her there.. she is a PIA. She drives me nuts. So I called my dad and said that it is really adults only and stuff and no other kids would be there. He said thats fine (he isnt too fond of the 11 yr old either). Well come to find out 3 of my girlfriends are bringing thier children to the shower. Granted they are all 1 yr or new born. So Its a little different.
Should I just leave it and if anything is said just explain that its easier to leave behind a 11 yr old then it is a 2 month old?

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