So, I was not the girl who used a sheet as a veil and had "weddings" with my Ken Dolls. I did not dream about my wedding until my fiance entered my dreams. And, I don't have a lot of girlfriends. I am planning in a community that is new to me and our moms are 10 hours away. So, I am on my own as I learn what a wedding is about and create our wedding.
Basically, there are a lot of phone calls and a lot of minute decisions and I like getting an opinion at times. Our families are close and telling one person results in every guest knowing everything in an instant and I have heard that it is better not to include too many people because too many opinions can confuse things. So, I tell/ask him.
I have a short break from grad school which gives me a nice block of time to get as much done as I can. He is willing to help, but he is still a guy. At times, I feel as though his eyes are glazed over and he wants me to be more than his wedding planner. This is what I am doing for one more week, alone in a bedroom community, so it is the dimension I am in and I feel a little manic when we talk!
Just wondering if others ever feel like their husband-to-be might feel as though wedding planning is a little too consuming.
Happily, I should be a little more grounded by next week and my mind will be on school.