Ok I need a little help here.... My younger sister (17) just had a beautiful baby gil in October. Trying to talk wedding with them is starting to become impossible because they are still on BABY, But my wedding is in August and I cant figure out how to get them off baby and on to wedding. Every time I try and tell them how I feel it gets turned back on me. It's your wedding not ours... or we can talk about it later there is plenty of time left. How do I get them to understand how important this is to me before i quit trying and leave them out completely?