We decided we wanted a small wedding and I had the idea of maybe a BBQ since it will also be two days before my birthday. I was thinking and informal wedding just because the time of year (june). I was wondering what other people though since the famly I've asked is split on good idea or bad idea. I though short dress and awsome heels, without a veil and a normal suit for him then have two attendants (i couldn't pick) wear siple summer dresses and the grromsmen wear just a buttom down and nice pants?