In my family we celebrate Birthdays up to a certain age, usually the last party you have is when you turn 16. After that, we don't see the need to "party". I love this because my Fiance's family is the exact opposite, they celebrate every Birthday, for every age, and for every member of the family! And when he has five siblings and three of them are mothers, that's a lot of Birthdays!
Anyways, my Birthday is coming up really soon and my Fiance wants to do something for me. I think it is really sweet, however I feel kinda weird since I haven't done anything for my Birthday for quite some time. Last year he wanted to take me out to dinner, but was called in for work.
So now he is throwing some ideas at me to see what I would like to do this year and I can't answer. I asked him if he thought it would be "inappropriate" I guess you could say, to do something just for a Birthday and he said I was looking at a guy that has celebrated every Birthday in some way or another...
I still don't want to do anything, but I have a feeling he is going to be unhappy about it. Should I just let him do his thing, or should I tell him to not worry about it?
~Soon to become Mrs. O'Kane!~