So I have a gorgeous tiara I want to wear, with a veil. However, I also really like the idea of a couple flowers (not a lot just maybe 2, or several smaller) as well....what I would like is a tumbled/curled look down my back, with a couple flowers. Then the tiara in the front, with the veil for the ceremony (I'd take them off for the reception). The way I am invisioning it you wouldn't see both the tiara and the flowers at once.
Is that too much?
Alternatively, I also thought about something like holly or mistletoe as it is a Chrimstas theme wedding.