Im wearing my mother's wedding dress for the ceremony, which is a ballroom style gown, with a long train and bustle. and then i also bought a short strapless diamond white dress(that is just above the knee) for the reception. our ceremony is at our church, and then our reception is at an outdoor vendor, under a pavillion next to the river. we are doing all the traditional things, first dance, cutting the cake, garter/bouquet toss. my biggest thing right now(19 days away!!!!!) when should i change into the second dress??? im not sure how the whole garter thing is going to work with such a short dress, and when is it usually done?? im thinking maybe after that and once all the dances etc are done i could change. . . . i dont know, please give me your opinions!!!