My future mother-in-law and sister-in-law are very opinionated, overbearing (and melodramatic at times) women. They have been obsessing about dress shopping since I got engaged 3 years ago. They "absolutely have to go, they dont want me to look like a slob walking down the aisle, they want me to get white, not ivory, etc. They only want to go so I get the dress THEY like. I always thought of dress shopping as a mother-daughter event. I went with only my mother over the summer and found my dream dress and bought it complete with the veil, shoes, sachet, bra and slip. Am I wrong to only want to share that day with my mom? The in-laws still dont know I have the dress. Can I just come out and tell them? Should I be honest and tell them I only wanted to do this with my mother? What do I do if they overreact (as I suspect they will)? AAAAHHHH Drama! Help!