I am torn between 2 dresses. One fits the style I am going for but will need a lot of alterations to give it the fit I want but I know it will work very well with the netted bird cage veil/father facinator I want to wear.
The 2nd dress isn't nearly as modern or sexy but I loved it too. I know this dress is probably more within my fiance's comfort zone of style but I just cannot imagine a vintage inspired cage veil with this dress.
Sheer veils no matter the length just feel way to traditional for me which is opposite of what I am going for.
Thoughts - Do you think a french net cage veil & feather facinator (AND feather bouquet) could go with this dress?

(sorry can't access the actual pic of me wearing the dress from work)
the other dress I am liking I feel goes more with the look, but may be TOO modern/sexy for my fi's taste.

i had to tuck in strap and pin in a sweetheart neckline and broach for this effect.