I'm attending a wedding next month in NYC and the rehearsal dinner is at Lucky Strike Bowling in one of the private rooms. What should I wear? I have been to 15+ weddings and all the rehearsal dinners I've attended were in nice restaurants so it was easy. I live in S. Calif. I was thinking a black top, jeans and tall black boots or a dress with boots. Any thoughts? Also, groom is SO's cousin and I'm meeting some of the extended family members for the first time so I want to look great. Thanks!