I have thought all along my fiance & best man will wear a dark brown suit, but just last night (3 months from wedding) I have gotten a NEW dress! Its guaranteed to be in...now the dilema..the sash has rhinestones, which are silvery/gray toned, so now Im thinking they would look best in dark charcoal suits...now the anal part...do the invitations /wedding colors need to "match" his suit as well? we are getting marrried in Oct, girls in sangria color, invite has brown tree, with sangria & green accents...am i stressing way to much over this?? is it ok to just have gray in suit & pick up sangria color or green in the tie??? Please advise