I'm going to my first English wedding very soon. I'm sort of freaking out....it's pretty posh. It's an early evening ceremony at a church followed by a reception at a country club. I think I really need a hat/fascinator, and I have to make a descision very soon for it to arrive in England in time. My first one just didn't work well.
Here are the options....I would LOVE some advice (even though I know this board is for bridal party....I still thought you could help). My dress is inspired by this dress but it's knee-lenght and in lighter/med yellow
http://jcrewaholics.com/wedding/the-coveted-daphne-wedding-gown/Option #1: Black shoes, black clutch with this gray fascinator
http://www.etsy.com/listing/71129469/grey-knot-with-feather. Is it too bumble bee? Would a typical British person wear something like this?? My husband is of no help...this is his first wedding in England though he is English!
Option #2: Blue fascinator, navy peep toe shoes, with a navy clutch.
http://www.etsy.com/listing/75601333/blue-headpiece-with-blue-pheasantI am more partial to this style of hat....seems easier to wear. Or should I do a neutral/cream shoe? I see that a lot on the royal family when I am reading the gossip pages (guilty pleasure).
Thanks for the help!!