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oh no!

I went and tried on 6 dresses, thought I found THE ONE. I stopped looking BUT now I keep dreaming and thinking about the very first dress I tried on. I just put a deposit on my dress didn't actually order it because I want to wait a few months before I do that and they said I could change my mind I love my dress but the dreams and thoughts about the other dress have me second guessing myself. I'm sure this has happened to other people what did you do?

Re: oh no!

  • once you find the dress of your dream you have to stop looking because if not you will keep second guessing yourself..If you still have the chance to change your mind ,go back and try both dress on and see how you feel about it and make your decision. Good luck !!
  • csweaneycsweaney member
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    edited August 2012
    Like the previous post said, if you have the opportunity I would definitely go in and try on both dresses again. And don't bring a huge entourage. Just go either by yourself or with your mother or bridesmaid. That way you don't have othe ropinions muddling your thoughts on the dresses.
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  •  thats my problem...I had gone by myself on a whim and tried on 3 dresses dress #3 was it - or so I thought. A month later I went back for my final decision with 2 of my BMs and my mother tried on all of the orginal 3 dresses as well as 3 more. After really looking at myself in mirror in the org dress that I had picked I realized omg this is not flattering AT ALL! still walked out and showed them it and they weren't impressed so my thoughts on that dress were confirmed, completely ditching that dress. 3 dresses later I look at myself in the mirror and say omg I love this one but I love the first  one too! so  I come out and everyone says they can't decide between dress #1 and dress #6 - I said don't look at the bling give me your opinion as to what looks best one me. They said both look amazing on me. When I orginally went and tried on the first dress I loved it and was 99.99% sure that was the dress but it was $1700 (the one I picked is only $1100) which is a little over my budget. That is the ONLY thing keeping me from going back tomorrow and putting more money down and picking that dress. :( I've talked to my fiancee and he says do whatever I feel is right, it's my day and he doesn't want me to regret ANYTHING. He said if the dress is what I want and I can change my deposit to the other dress then go for it. I am just torn about spending that much money on one thing for the wedding. I know I sound like a wishy-washy-picky can't make up her mind bride sorry ladies :)
  • It's your wedding day so go for the dress of your dream,If money is not an issue then buy the one you really love.
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