My mom is having a freak out over the fact I told her I bought purple shoes to wear for my wedding. Shoes that I have to say I'm pretty psyched about. She's insisting that I will "ruin the whole look" if I wear them. I told her to look at a bridal magazine and even showed her a few, but she's still having a hard time with this one. Are you ladies going more for traditional shoes (white, silver, gold) or something a little more colorful that pops out?