The ladies are in tea length, strapless dresses. Do the men have to wear black suits? I don't mine the groomsmen in black but the general idea that everyone can wear black doesn't really apply to my hubby-to-be.
Often my fiance has shadows/bruising under his eyes (asthma and allergies) and black just makes it stand out more. Would charcoal for the groom be ok? Should the groomsmen match him? or should he be in black?