Our Groomsmen (and one grooms girl) are each wearing a different color tuxedo t-shirt and with chuck taylor all-stars in the same color as the shirt. 2 weeks before the wedding, one of them has infomed us they "can't afford" their shoes. they've known for over 8 months what they needed to buy and it only costs about $60 total, far less than renting a tux they have to return. my fiance bought the shoes, under the pretense that they could be lent out for the wedding. it sounds silly when i say i dont think they deserve to be in the wedding because they didn't buy shoes, but it's the principle. 2 weeks before?!!?? the shoes are $39.99!!! coming from someone who goes out ALL the time. any suggestions on what i should do? just let us get walked on for the sake of the wedding? or speak my mind to this person? it kills me to keep it inside!!!