So do my FI and GM boutiner match or is the FI supposed to be slightly different? Also, my father will not be at the wedding, we will not be having any ushers, and his dad is in the wedding...is there anybody else that should be wearing a boutiner? I was thinking maybe my grandad (we thought about having him walk me down the aisle but its kinda long and there are alot of steps and he isn't as spry as he once was).