Hello all,
I really need help. I've narrowed my dresses down to two, but I can't seem to make a choice. I love this one. Originally, I was looking for the rouching and the lace mix because I wanted to do a "hollywood glam" / vintage look. This fits that perfectly, plus I love the train on this one.

Bu then I tried this one on and I really like this one too. It's a lot more fun. But is it over the top? Do I look like a cupcake because its soo wide.
I would really appreciate some honest feedback. The dresses are so different and I just can't decide.
For what its worth, my wedding is in a huge chapel, so big is not a problem in there, and this second one has a huge train.
Thanks,