For Christmas my fiance's grandmother gave me a beautiful genuine pearl necklace that was her mothers. She asked me to consider wearing it in the wedding. I don't know what to do because 1. I had already planned on wearing my mothers pearl necklace that is more of a choker with a string of small pearls, and 2. his great-grandmothers pearl necklace has a long gold chain and gold clasp with just one big natural pearl...I have already picked everything out to match silver. However, it is subtle enough to match my dress fine I just know my mothers would be a better fit for the wedding dress. What do I do to avoid hurting anyones feelings??