Let me start by saying that I will not be buying any jewelry for my bridesmaids. My FI and I are already paying for their shoes and hair and makeup for the day of. Now I'm really not at all particular about what type of jewelry the girls wear. And the reason why I am not buying them jewelry is because I know one of them prefers not to wear earings (ever) and another one is the same way when it comes to necklaces. I figured since they are already in the same dress and shoes I would let them wear whatever jewelry they want to. But I am starting to wonder if would look tacky at all if they are all in completely different sets of jewelry. Am I overthinking this? I should just stick with letting them wear what they want to, right? Or should I set some parameters or would that be rude?