I'm a bigger girl and am having so much trouble finding a strapless bra that I like! I usually wear spanx for any special events where I need to dress up but I don't want to wear a regular strapless bra and spanx under my wedding dress. I want some kind of shapewear that has a strapless bra connected to it. Does that make sense? I want to be able to take off my wedding dress and look and feel sexy with what I am wearing underneath but it has to have support at the same time! I wear a 44C bra and the only things I have been able to find only go up to size 42. Will this work? If I get a 42 would I still get a C cup or get a D cup? Someone please help me!!