I'm having a hard time deciding if pearls will go with my wedding attire. My dress is bright white with silver accents and rhinestones. My head piece is sparkly rhinestones. And my veil is sparkly. My future mother in law gave me the earrings she wore at her wedding before I picked out my dress but they are a very dark silver with an ivory pearl. I feel they don't match AT ALL. I havent really mentioned it to her, but out of the blue she told me one day that she doesn't want me to think that I HAVE to wear them and her feelings won't be hurt if I don't. But I'm feeling kinda bad. Help?