This both of our second weddings. It will be simple country black and white and crimson colors next to the cabin by the river. I Dont know what to do about shoes??? My dress is a short white elegant country strapless dress. I want to wear cowgirl boots but I want them brown not black. Does it matter? Maids are wearing black dresses of their own choosing. Guys are in jeans black dress shirts some in boots others in shoes. Since my maids dresses will all be different styles same black color can they wear whatever shoes they want? This is a realistic wedding. I want everyone comfortable. Can I wear cowgirl boots and some of my maids wear boots and some wear shoes? does it really matter??? Please help!