I'll be wearing a lace gown, strapless, altered sweetheart neckline... I'm trying to decide between a birdcage veil with a flower facinator (lent from a friend) or a more traditional veil single tiered that will just flow down the back (it would hit right around my lower back... also lent by a friend) then attaching a flower to the side of my updo, or using a crystal headband/headpiece. I'm looking to have my hair done like one of these photos, or maybe a combo of all of them! What are all your thoughts? (ps getting married in August in NC, in a Barn on a farm!)