Help!
My fiance just called me "bridezilla" because I want the fathers and our ushers to wear something nice and cohesive the day of our wedding. I feel totally dejected and upset because he doesn't believe me when I say it's normal for a bride to care about the cohesive look of the wedding party and family members (ushers will be a brother in-law and a cousin who is like a brother). When I tell him that it IS normal, that's when the "bridezilla" name comes. How can I show him and tell him that a formal wedding should have nice-looking fathers and ushers, especially ushers that match? (Oh, and for his twin brother's wedding last year, his father wore an RED tie with BLACK skinny stripes to the wedding when the wedding colors were yellow and light blue with soft green accents) Help... can anyone point me to articles or advice?