My husband and I are renewing our vows In 2012. I do not want a white, or anything near white for a wedding dress. My colors are rose pink, opay gray. I 've choosing a bright pink dress, with rosk pink ,opay gray and clear accents as detailing. I also will have a opal gray detachable train. My bridesmaids are wearing rose pink dresses with opray gray accents. The problem is my husband wants Smoke/Deep Gray tuxedos ..I'm afraid that the two dark colors will clash. Honest opinions on if I should go lighter with my dress...I choose my dress color in honor of him. It's his favorite color on me....