flowers in my hair

Westbe03

So, no viel for me. It's just not my thing, and the back of my dress is very unique and I want to show it off. So I've decided to wear a flower in my hair, and was wondering if it was bridezilla-ish to tell my bridesmaids they can wear hair accessories if they want, but limit it to no flowers. (Bobby-pins with little flowers are ok, but nothing thats too too similiar to what I'll have) Let me know what you think.

jagore08

I think that's fine but do it in a nice way.  

"I am going to be wearing a flower instead of a veil.  If you ladies want to wear headbands or jeweled pins that's cool with me."

roxy91918

I'm wearing a flower in my hair as well but it's because my fiance is Spanish and it just gives the flare I'm looking for.  I actually have printed out hair pieces I want my bridesmaids to wear because I want them to kind of know their limits or whatnot.  So I think it's totally okay.  Like has been said before me, just do it in a nice way.  If they've gotten a spot as a bridesmaid they'll understand that this is not the day to look alike.  Good luck!

Midgetth

I think it's fine if you tell your BM's not to wear real flowers in their hair. Just tell them twhat you just told us." Bobby pins with flowers are fine but please no real flowers since that's what I'll have in my hair. " They'll understand and no where you're coming from