Ok Ladies I need some advice. I know for sure I want to get my rings sautered together (i've heard how bad it is for your rings and how it can warp the bands.) but I don't know if I want to sauter them before or after the wedding. I'm not sure how long it takes but my mom said hers took 2 weeks. I like the idea of having my DF just putting my wedding band on my finger but I don't want to be married and not be able to wear my rings. I'm so confused and could really use some advice!