Went to try on wedding dresses this weekend and found that Ivory looks best on my skin. The lady helping me said that the groom and other guys would have to wear ivory shirts then, but we plan on going with Grey tuxes. I don't think Ivory would look great with grey. I discussed with two of my bridesmaids and they didn't think wearing white would really be all that bad for the guys. Anyone have this problem or have suggestions?