okay. I'm pretty upset right now and I need to calm down/need advice. So my sister is having another wedding and she decided to have it 2 weeks before mine. She got married December 21st, 2010, she had a small court-room ceremony then a dinner party after. She didn't want to wait for a "real wedding" so she did it then. 2 months ago I decided to start booking stuff for our wedding sept 1st 2011, and she decides a month ago to have a "vow renewal" but my mom and dad call it a "wedding" 2 weeks BEFORE MY WEDDING. So I have slowly been getting over this, until lately. My mom asks if she can have the same caterer as I. My FI spoke to each other about it, and because my wedding is 2 BLOCKS and 2 WEEKS away from my sisters "wedding" we decided having the same caterer is something we don't want. I tell her this on Saturday, she asks me for my caterer and I told her NO I DON'T WANT YOU TO USE **** (caterers name), what does she do Sunday morning first thing? SHE CALLS MY CATERER. My caterer called me this morning and spoke with me, and she said she might also be doing my sisters "wedding" 2 weeks before mine. WHY IS THIS HAPPENING? I just want to cry. why is my mom such a bitch? I DON'T UNDERSTAND why is she using this caterer when I asked them not to? am I over-reacting? our weddings are literally 2 blocks from each other, I picked my venue first then my mom did for my sister, my sister is 30, and my parents are paying for ALL of her wedding and even though they are BARELY helping me (but hey something is better than nothing) this whole situation with the caterer makes me so upset. I don't know what to do.
