FB weird-ness. FB is the debil.

MadameS

So AF1 and I are all hot and heavy. We go out several times a week, always have upcoming plans. Including for his 30th B-day in November (skydiving!). Tonight, I was feeling all swoony, and wanted to look at pics of him AND I SEE HE UNFRIENDED ME. Now, he only ever had 3 friends on there anyay- me and two people I don't know. One is a cute chick. We were talking about FB last night on our date, and how our old classmates that have looked us up. He has turned down every request from them, saying, "I figured I already hit the jackpot with one old classmate" and patted my leg (Cute).So should I be totally weirded out that he went through the trouble to UNFRIEND me on a website he doesn't really use? We have plans tomorrow. I am so biting my tounge to see what this is about.

wingedbride

maybe your SIL got to himseriously though, something seems very odd about that. maybe it was a glitch or accident.

Mrs.Babbsy

maybe he was here and read about the cookiegate. Winged, love the picture:)

MadameS

AF1 stands with me on Cookiegate. One more reason I like him. AND HE'S SO STINKIN' CUTE WHEN HE ISN'T UNFRIENDING ME.

FallinAgain

I'd just ask him.

MadameS

I'm sure I will. Everything else is right. Now it's just a matter of waiting until tomorrow night since I'm bored and curious right now.

tbh33

Maybe he deleted his profile which would make it seem like he unfriended you.  Or someone could have always hacked into his account and done it for him.

Mrs.Babbsy

maybe he was agreeing with you about cookiegate to get in your pants???

MadameS

Oh babbsy, it doesn't take confirming what I already know to get in these pants.He still has an account, I'm just not on it anymore. Although I like the random paranioa of a hacker incident.

wingedbride

good idea about the account deleting. did you search him and see if he is even on FB?

FallinAgain

Maybe BOM hacked into YOUR account and unfriended him.

wingedbride

nevermind that then.seriously, a while back one of our friends (friend 1) had some glitches in her account. another friend (friend 2) messaged me because she thought she was unfriended, so i looked at the friend 1's account. friend 2 was listed as a friend still, but for some reason FB had a glitch that it seemed like she was unfriended.

MadameS

Oh geez, Fallin...creeeeeeeepy. But I doubt the BOM would have any idea of who I am dating. Well, maybe he would, depending on how he got my travel details. I'm gonna have to give the BOM the benefit of the doubt right now. I think AF1 is just a FB snob. I thought it was a little wierd that he isn't interested in saying hi to ANY old classmates, yet he friended me long enough to email me and eventually ask me out. But still weird to unfriend me. Oy.And winged, I could still find his profile when I searched his name, so he still has it.

FallinAgain

can you see if he still has the other 2 friends?

MadameS

yup. they are still in his circle of trust.

aligrrl80

maybe it's just FB being a 'tard? one of my friend's asked me recently why he couldn't access my profile anymore. I checked my settings and everything seemed normal. the next day he could see my profile again.

jens_a_ten

That would weird me out. Tell us what he says when you ask him, I'm curious. I mean, he had to know that you'd notice. Odd.

samfish2bcrab

Yup, that's weird.  he's just not that into you.

MamaKin

maybe he just doesn't want any more old classmates to friend him?  his pic will show up on the with "you may know this person" to all your friends.  he figured you're already friends, so why not stop the madness?if you guys are hot and heavy (that made me giggle) and have outstanding plans... why on earth would this worry you?

lindsayll

Dating in the FB era does not sound fun.  I was talking with a friend who went through a break up of a 2+ year relationship recently.  It's bad enough to break up with someone, worse when you have to figure out a way to unwind things on FB, untag photos, etc. with minimal drama for the viewing public.

FallinAgain

if you guys are hot and heavy (that made me giggle) and have outstanding plans... why on earth would this worry you?You wouldn't be a little weirded out that the guy you are dating suddenly unfriended you

SarahBethBR

You wouldn't be a little weirded out that the guy you are dating suddenly unfriended you Word.  I would think he was hiding something from me.

MadameS

yeah, that's the thing. he doesn't really use it. He's never had more than 3 friends, but went through the trouble to unfriend me. My conclusion right now is that he doesn't want to deal with all the friend requests from HS people. He's not as nosey as I am. I'll friend an old HS buddy, and then undo them once they ask for goats, or hit me with a pillow.

salimoo

Mo, the same thing happened to me that happened to Winged. It still looked like the person had a profile and their full list of friends, I just wasn't on it. I'm betting on that, honestly.I also haven't been on in, like, 4 days so I don't know if this was resolved.