FSIL is PIA!

mimicottrell

and she's in my weddding party. how to avoid murdering her on my wedding day? tell her to take a few extra xanax?

Girlie1030

Maybe take a few yourself?

mimicottrell

oh trust me, i'd love to. but it's not available or feesible as i would like to be awake for my wedding.

JenGin74

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[QUOTE]OP what you have done here is walk into a room full of strangers and thrown a fit about your family without any details.  When you do that you come off as needinga  prescription yourself.  So take a deep breath and tell us what happened. 
Posted by Dot Dash[/QUOTE]

Oh Dot, you're such a glutton for punishment  ;)

ricksang

This sh!t is too vague to answer. Who are you? What's you problem, so forth...

mimicottrell

she has a problem with not being the center of attention. she's a fainting flower who constantly has panic attacks. she talks sideways about me to people where i can see it and doesn't nec use my name but makes it plainly obvious who she's talking about. i'm worried about her pulling this bs at my wedding. i don't know how to get around this, and i've tried to get along with her and even reached out to her for friendship to no avail. i have my own problems and don't want her drama getting in the way on my wedding day.
p.s. if she saw this and knew it was me, it'd probably bring this to a head and we could talk it out like adults.

AllAboutTheBenjamin

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[QUOTE]and she's in my weddding party. how to avoid murdering her on my wedding day? tell her to take a few extra xanax?
Posted by mimicottrell[/QUOTE]


Whenever I want to not murder someone, I generally back away from the chainsaw.

AllAboutTheBenjamin

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[QUOTE]she has a problem with not being the center of attention. she's a fainting flower who constantly has panic attacks. she talks sideways about me to people where i can see it and doesn't nec use my name but makes it plainly obvious who she's talking about. i'm worried about her pulling this bs at my wedding. i don't know how to get around this, and i've tried to get along with her and even reached out to her for friendship to no avail. i have my own problems and don't want her drama getting in the way on my wedding day. p.s. if she saw this and knew it was me, it'd probably bring this to a head and we could talk it out like adults.
Posted by mimicottrell[/QUOTE]

Why did you ask her to be in your wedding if she sucks so hard?

AllAboutTheBenjamin

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FSIL is PIA! : I think I just found a new sig quote if you are cool with that. 
Posted by Dot Dash[/QUOTE]


Go for it!

ricksang

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[QUOTE]she has a problem with not being the center of attention. she's a fainting flower who constantly has panic attacks. she talks sideways about me to people where i can see it and doesn't nec use my name but makes it plainly obvious who she's talking about. i'm worried about her pulling this bs at my wedding. i don't know how to get around this, and i've tried to get along with her and even reached out to her for friendship to no avail. i have my own problems and don't want her drama getting in the way on my wedding day. p.s. if she saw this and knew it was me, it'd probably bring this to a head and we could talk it out like adults.
Posted by mimicottrell[/QUOTE]
Why not bring it to head NOW?

AllAboutTheBenjamin

Applying a hot wash cloth always brings it to a head for me.

AllAboutTheBenjamin

Haha me too.  Apparently my aunt got piss ass drunk and yelled at my mom and called her a bitch.  And my mom later flipped her shiit on a cop.  My uncle also dropped one of the wedding cakes on the floor.  I was none the wiser.

Course, there were like 350 people at our wedding.  I guess it would be easier for things to go unnoticed.

Girlie1030

My sister tried to start drama and I used the "Oh look, my glass is empty" method of avoidance.  If anything else happened, I didn't notice it.  I also didn't notice someone shattering a glass during our ceremony...  I was a little preoccupied I guess. 

mimicottrell

i would like to talk to her but she is terribly unreasonable and has never admitted fault in her life. ive come to her about things in the past that she did and got an apology "because you're feeling bad." so not really an apology at all. it's bascially like slamming my head into the wall over and over. she does this to him too. it's pretty relentless.

him being her brother, my fiance.

J&K10910

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[QUOTE]i would like to talk to her <strong>but she is terribly unreasonable and has never admitted fault in her life.</strong> ive come to her about things in the past that she did and got an apology "because you're feeling bad." so not really an apology at all. it's bascially like slamming my head into the wall over and over. she does this to him too. it's pretty relentless. him being her brother, my fiance.
Posted by mimicottrell[/QUOTE]

Yup, then she'd definitely be able to talk about it like adults if she finds out about the problem by reading you TALKING ABOUT HER BEHIND HER BACK TO THE ENTIRE INTERNET.

chelseamb11

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[QUOTE]i would like to talk to her but she is terribly unreasonable and has never admitted fault in her life. ive come to her about things in the past that she did and got an apology "because you're feeling bad." so not really an apology at all. it's bascially like slamming my head into the wall over and over. she does this to him too. it's pretty relentless. him being her brother, my fiance.
Posted by mimicottrell[/QUOTE]

I feel like she only does it for attention. Which you are clearly giving her. And I'm guessing you give her in real life too. Either ignore her or talk to her. Stop bitching about something you can't change to a bunch of women you've never interacted with before if you aren't going to take any advice.

Simply_Caitlin

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[QUOTE]In Response to FSIL is PIA! : Whenever I want to not murder someone, I generally back away from the chainsaw.
Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]

<img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-laughing.gif" border="0" alt="Laughing" title="Laughing" /> I just wandered into this forum randomly for the first time and this is the first thread I opened.  I laughed very, very hard at that.

I'm sorry to respond to such a serious topic just to say that so my 2 cents, have you spoken to your guy about it?  Maybe ask your other bridesmaids just to keep an eye on her.