I'm not sure if this is the place to post this or not, but since it is something I want to bitch about, so I figured why not.
Here is the story: A guest at my wedding, (mind you this was a guest who I didn't particularly care for to begin with, but we have a lot of mutual friends, and my husband invited him), decided to bring a limo-bus aka party bus to my wedding reception. He convinced some of the other guests and even members of the wedding party that this was a good idea under the premise that it was a cheaper and safe way home back to the their hotels. When I heard about this, because in his mass e-mail about it he sent it to someone that was not even invited to the wedding (several others who were invited were also left out), I told him that I would be taking care of the wedding party, and that all other guests should manage their drinking or get a DD. I even suggested that they could all rent a van, but that I didn't like the idea of a group of people having their own side party in the form of a limo-bus at my reception. This guest went ahead with the idea anyway. Not one of the people that was on the party bus got a ride back to their homes or hotels. Instead they all got a ride to that guests home where he was hosting his own party, and they were forced with the decision of staying and partying or getting a cab at that point. I didn't care that he was having a party, it was after the reception after all, and people always tend to continue the party after the reception, it was the way that he went about it that bothered me. Needless to say my friends do like to party and many stayed and things got out of hand. Most of the guests were from out of town, and had to return recently to got to court over some incidents that occurred that night. That is the reason the whole thing has been brought back to the forefront. This guest never apologized to me for disrespecting my wishes. He claims that he doesn't have to apologize because he got everyone home safely, which is obviously not true, given that people went to court over some events that occurred. Am I wrong to expect an apology?
Thanks!