Follow up to earlier tonight.

LedZeppelin

I know there's probably not anyone here, but I couldn't sleep anyway and then a person's ridiculous comment on FB got me all worked up. It was about how "homosexuality is a sin" and then he just went on and one with his nonsense. It made me angry and now I really can't sleep.

Anyhoo, FI and I are good now. We calmly talked about it when he got home. MIAF was right. He just didn't even realize that it would upset me. It was kind of frustrating at first because he couldn't see my side and I couldn't see his. We took a break, relaxed, and watched some tv and then came back to it a little later. He finally apologized for going at the last minute and going without me. He said they talked about going out again soon, so that I could go. Also, I guess she paid for everything, so he didn't spend any of that money we don't have.

Also, I should clarify something. Leslie isn't really just a random girl. They've worked together for a while and have been friends. She's actually helped FI quite a bit with writing his resume and getting his portfolio and stuff together. She's a very nice person. Now that I've calmed down I realized my being upset had nothing to do with her or that FI was out with just her. It was all of the other things.

Thanks so much for listening to me vent and making me feel better about everything. You guys are so wonderful.

thesuninherhead

I would have been uncomfortable with that situation, too. I'm glad that you talked through it all. 

NatesGirl16

I'm glad it worked out! 

LesPaul

I'm glad you talked it out, Zepp.  I would have been upset too - I get unreasonably hurt when DH doesn't include or invite me to things he decides to do.  And he doesn't really understand it either.

SarahPLiz

I'm glad you worked it out, Zepp!

pixiedust84

I wasn't involved in the first thread but did read it and totally do not blame you. I would have felt the same way.

So glad you worked it out. Relationships are tricky! Sometimes we do things without even realizing how it will affect our partner. When you can talk it out (or fight it out :-) ) and feel better - clearly you're doing okay! Glad you feel better.

Also re: the facebook thing - totally with ya! I get so annoyed if a FB friend posts something ignorant.

KaylaSue19

I will third or fourth the glad it worked out comments.

JenGin74

I missed your post last night, but just got caught up.

I would have been pretty pissed too. I'm glad you were able to talk it out. Men just really don't think sometimes

MarriedInAFever

I'm going to put "MIAF was right" in my sig. Just kidding!

I'm so glad! I can definitely understand why you were frustrated, but I can understand that he only had the best intentions. Communication is key. You did the right thing!