So a friend on FB posted a link, politically based. H made a comment on it and friend and H had an conversation, though they didn't agree, but it was civil and intelligent. Then another rando guy comes in and says about my H, "you are retarded, your argument is stupid." Ok, no one says things like this about my husband and gets away with it. So, of course, I posted "Please don't call my husband that, and I'm sure the mentally handicapped would appreciate it if you'd have more tact in the future." So after about 20 minutes, H points out my post is gone. Original friend has deleted my post because he didn't want the inflammatory friend to get upset. Original friend and I are no longer friends on FB. I don't need those kind of people in my life. I like my friends, but I love my husband and no one says bad things about my husband.