So I have responded on post's here on SB but not posted my own as yet. Little about myself, Christy live in NZ wedding in MI 17 Sept 2011. Been with/ living with FI for 4.5 years. We got engaged in Oct 10. What I am wondering from those who were with their H's for a while before they got married is.. is it any different? if yes how? Also what's the hardest part so far? Thanks!