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People have to do what is right with their own lives. At the same time, the people who know you best have a right to be concerned about you if they don't think you are mature enough, or if they think you might have fiscal constraints. I will be 20 when I get married, my FI will be 21. I have heard many different opinions from my family about this, and I respect them all. In the end, however, it is my right to choose when I get married and to whom. Knowing this helps me feel less annoyed when I feel people dont understand. I agree with everyone about the money issue. It's traditional for parents to host the event. However, if it wasn't offered, then it would be rude to ask. Also, not wise to put yourself in the poor house for a wedding. As for where maturity is concerned, it is good to type with correct english. However, there may or may not be a correlation between typos and being ready to get married, so I'm not going to read into it too much.