Heres a little past about me.
My parents got a divorce when I was 10 years old and my mom met a guy out in NY and we all moved out there. Her "boyfriend" Ken has never liked me not even when I was little. I could not tell you why, because I have no idea...I dont have a problem with people at all but I do with him now, because of the way he treated me while I was growing up. I had stated to my mom how I didnt really want Ken to be at my wedding and I was trying to figure out away around it, but I had talked to some other family members about it and they said just invite him and if he comes then deal with it and if he doesnt come then thats okay too. So on Saturday I told everyone on here that I had found my dress, which like any other bride it is an extrememly exciting moment. I took My mom, Aunt, Grandmother, Soon to be Mother in law, My MOH and another friend with me. While I was in my wedding dress my wonderful mother stated to me that her "boyfriend" of 12 years did not want to come to my wedding. Its one thing that I dont want him there but another thing when my mother just flats out tells me he does not want to be there....while I am in my wedding gown, and she doesnt care....its like she just tried to ruin that moment for me. I did basically everything I could to not say something but it just erks me that she would do that. Well today I was with my mom and she told me it was up to me if I inivited him or not...I feel like I should just because I am the bigger person but at the same time I really dont want him there.
Any advice on what to do?
