Ok so when I first got engaged, i ask my cousin to sing durring the ceremony. She said that she was more than happy to sing at my wedding. Then in November she asked me if Phillip was gonna be there. (Phillip was her fiance until she went crazy on him and broke off the engagement, since then she's been engaged again and broke it off. Now she's engaged again to be married this October. Oh yeah Phillip is one of my dad's good friends.Oh and he is married with a child now.) I told her I had no idea.
Then a few weeks ago, she emailed me to say that she just couldn't sing at the wedding because Phillip was goin to be there (she called him to make sure) and she just didn't think it would be pretty because she would get all emotional. So I told her I understand and luckily found a backup, and I asked if she was still coming and to bring her fiance cuz we would like to meet him! She responded back with she was still coming and was bringing him to meet the rest of the family.
Last week I talked to my dad and he's under the impression that my cousin isn't even coming to the wedding now! She didn't think it would be a good idea for Phillip and her new fiance to meet. I'm a fairly understandable person....but this just pisses me off. I really think she's being pathetic and needs to grow up. She's 28 yrs old.
Just ranting...but I'm pissed about it!