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Getting worried...

H just text me an said that it has finally happened.  His company is just about out of work and starting tomorrow some people are going to have to start taking unpaid time off.  He isn't sure who those people are yet. 

He is one of only three civil engineers at the company (one other is the owner and the other is the owner's SIL) and their entire company only employs about 30 people max at a time (counting survey crews which are only hired as needed).  He doesn't think he will get laid off but in the back of my mind I really can't help but worry about that being a major possibility.  I don't want to voice that concern to him yet, at least not until we know more about what's going on.  I'm just getting worried =(.  If he can stick it out for one more year he can take his boards and once he passes that so many more opportunists will be available but if things keep going this way he may not be able to stick it out another year.

I know I should be thankful he has a job and I really really am thankful for it, it's just scary thinking he may not at some point in the near future..
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Re: Getting worried...

  • That is a scary prospect.  We just went through a layoff and finding a new job.  Things have a way of working themselves out.  Good vibes your way!
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  • its really scary. Sorry you are going through this. My H was laid off 2 weeks before our wedding. He ended up doing contract jobs until he found a full time position and started a few weeks ago.

    How is his field.. could he start getting resumes out now?

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  • Well it's hard to offer advice in a worrisome time like this - so I'll just send tome T&P and some good vibes - how does that sound?

    I'd be worried as crap, too.  That's stressful.  Maybe try and do something today to calm yourself down and take your mind off of it. 

    *hugs*
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  • Thanks for the good vibes guys.

    Things are so slow around here right now as far as his jobs goes.  He's been looking nonstop for months even in other states for a new job but they all want you to have you PE (which is what he has to take in a year) so there isn't anything even out there for him right now.

    I know something will work out in the end it's just getting there that's the hard part.
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  • Sorry to hear about that. I know how frustrating it can be not knowing. I watched my mom and stepdad go through it for almost 2 years. It sucks. Here's hoping for the best.
  • Sorry you and your DH are going through this right now. We've been there done that quite a bit in the last year. So I know exactly where you are, and it is nerve wracking. Just keep positive thoughts.And definatly stay positive around him.

    I know my DH acted like he wasnt worried, but he was. So I put on my gameface for quite awhile. I know you will be fine, but sending good vibes your way. And keep us updated. Good Luck!
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  • We just went through that exact same thing. FI works(ed) for a architecture/engineer firm and got "temporarily" laid off/furlowed (sp?) several weeks ago. They've continued to let him work about half the time he was working before, but it's definitely been a rough patch. He found a new job now, but I don't think we're quite out of the weeds yet. Anyway, I would suggest he at least update his resume and start looking into new jobs. Other than that, just try to stay positive. I know it's hard, though.
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