I have a friend getting married at the end of July and I am in her wedding. She has not so subtly hinted that she wants us to get our hair done, make up applied, manis and pedis (we have to be "painted and pretty"). The place she wants us to go to (which is different than the one her, her mother and sister, also a BM, are going to) wants $75 for hair and make up. Basically, with all this grooming, we are looking at spending well over $100 (I'm not even spending that much on myself for my OWN wedding). On top of the $60 shoes and $170 dress we already had to purchase (nevermind she didn't ask for a budget I was comfortable with). She did allow us to chose our own dresses, so I hope I can wear mine again. I'm slightly miffed she wants us to spend over $300 on being in her "tight-budget" wedding. I knew that there were going to be expenses to be in her wedding, but I think this is getting a little out of control.
Has she gone too far or am I the one being rediculous? Any advice on how to handle this would be helpful!