This is from my local.http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_new-jersey_seriously-gift
CN: I know we've had discussions about what we give at weddings and a few people seemed to be surprised at the NE/NYC Metro mentality of "covering your plate." I just came across this thread on my local about guests not giving gifts at the wedding. In the thread, people were saying they keep spreadsheets so they can keep track of what gifts they receive from others, etc. Thought you guys would have something to say on this.