My FI and I met with a very nice pastor as a prospective officiant for our wedding. We liked her well enough, but were a little surprised by the fact that she just pulled folders from a filing cabinet and said that we could use any of these ceremonies, she will sell us candles or sand for any unity ceremony, and when it came to price, my FI and I were very shocked by how expensive it was. After meeting with a different prospective officiant, who offered us a more personalized experience at an easier to swallow price, I e-mailed the pastor we had previously met with and politely told her that after careful consideration and discussion with our families, we decided that her fee just didn't fit into our budget. 3 hours later I got an e-mail reply saying, "Thank you for your response. I always have a question when folks have a budget when their wedding is at [our venue]". I was BLOWN away! I couldn't believe that a pastor would send such a back-handed comment to me in an e-mail because we couldn't afford her services. She was recommended by our venue and I will tell them that I was greatly offended by her. My biggest thing right now, is that I cannot decide if I should write her back or just leave it. I keep thinking of things I can say to her to let her know that I was offended by her comment, but I don't know if I should just let sleeping dogs lie and leave it at complaining to our venue's wedding coordinators who recommended her.
Any thoughts? Write her back or leave it be??
TIA