Okay...My best friend of 7 years reacted horribly to my engagement. She had been having a rough few months in the dating department. But I had no idea my FI was going to pop the question when I invited her on a group vacation she actually left five days early because of my FI popping the question. (there had never been issues between them or us prior to the engagement)
Well, because of her reaction and the seemingly impossible idea of her being happy for me, I cut ties. A couple months after my engagement I moved out of state for school. Then after seven months of no communication a mutual friend decided it was time to break the silence. We got together while I was home for a family function and talked through our challenges and reasons why we each felt wronged. That was about four months ago and since then we have been speaking around once or twice every few weeks and things are going well. However, I do not feel our friendship is the same and can ever be the same. And my FI still feels very uncomfortable around her.
Here is the kicker! Our wedding is in about eight months and in conversation I had mentioned to her that we still have not found a minister mostly because we can't be there to do pre marital services in person. Well, I walk out of class this week and she sent me a text message saying this"Would love to be involved, I will get ordained!!! And I can preform the service for you"
Thoughts ladies??? How should I respond to this?
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