My FI sister is getting married on the beach in September, actually a month from today. Well I was never offically told by her that she was engaged, I found out on facebook by a picture with the capture, "yes, it is what you think it is." They set the date and never really told anyone except her parents, they set it around a trip that they had already booked so they could use it as their honeymoon, fine.
This wedding is practically a destination wedding for everyone, we all have to drive out-of-state and get hotel rooms and no one has recieved invitations, I have not been told that I am invitedby her, just by her telling my FI that she hopes I can come b/c I'll be in school and studying a lot. Maybe it is just me, but I find it rude to not at least call someone that you wanted to invite or tell them the information needed to make reservations. I thought the wedding was in a totally different state than it actually is until I spoke with her mom this weekend. She hasn't, as far as I know invited anyone else in the family either.
She is in my wedding, it is not like we dont get along or anything. I personally, if I am expected to go (which I am b/c her mom asked me and my FI to get a room with a connecting door with her) would just like phone call asking me to come. My FI is also supposed to be walking her down the aisle b/c her dad probably wont even be showing up. Am I asking a lot?
BFP #1 6/18/2012 // EDD 2/28/2013 // Birthdate 2/7/2013
