Do you and your SO know how many people you've slept with? Is it important to you?
When H and I began dating I told him that I didn't care to know because where he was before he met me had nothing to do with our relationship (so long as we are both healthy). In subsequent conversations (drunken games of "I Never") we both revealed our "number." Still, neither of us cares.
Well we were out with friends this past weekend and one of the gals had always told everyone she'd only been with H. After a few glasses of wine said otherwise then proceeded to get extremely angry and embarrassed. I just don't think it's that big of a deal - what say you ladies?
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"You wore a tit dress at an AIDS party??? You need to go to the whore corner with Mara " - Blue