We were talking TMJ and jaw pain and teeth grinding awhile ago, yes? Have you guys ever used a Sobakawa pillow? They're the pillows with the little bead things in them. They sound uncomfortable, but I've been using mine for about a month now, and I've hardly had any jaw pain or headaches when I wake up, and the number one indicator that I've been ginding my teeth is gone (my tongue will get sore and raw on the sides because it gets caught in the crossfire). I know you guys have much worse TMJ than I do, but it's a $15 pillow, so it might be worth a shot!
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