or am having one.
I'm posting on SB because i like the truth and i know you guys are hard and honest and i need it right now.
I've posted before about a friend of mine and our relationship has come to an end, it is tearing me apart inside. She decided not to come to the bridesmaid dress hunt, with out a word. She just didnt come, and she wont talk to me at all. I've said it in past posts but i'll say it again. I dont care if she wants nothing to do with my wedding, i just want her as a friend, and that isnt something that she is willing to do.
My FI is the type of guy that will say "babe,whatever makes you happy" but its a cop out. He will say this so he doesnt have to be responsible for anything. So here i am planning OUR wedding all by myself. The wedding isnt till Aug next year but i have to have the majority of it done before Dec of this year because of my job. Once Jan hits i have no time for anything but 1040s and 1120s =/
Last night i literally broke down. I have never cried so hard in my life, and i felt like i was the idiot. That i had no reason to be crying but couldnt stop. I told him how i was stressed about the wedding and he said "then cancel it, well just go down to the court house" That isnt what i want to hear or do, i dont know how many times i can beg for him to help me. My BMs and my mom are pitching in to help me, but its not their job and i hate feeling like i'm burdening them.
I dont think this is a relationship problem between him and i (yet) because we really dont argue that much, we will have our differences and its fine and normal, but when it comes to anything wedding he just doesnt want to be involved. It makes me feel insecure. Am i over reacting or is there some truth in my feelings?
How did your man help you out? Did you have to beg to? Or am i going about it the wrong way?