My FBIL girlfriend has asked both FI and I what the specs on our engagement ring is. My FI right before he proposed told his brother how much he spent on it (didn't consult me, b/c we had both agreed on not telling people) and it looks like the information got passed on to her. We did spend a lot of money which is why I didn't want to tell people b/c the friends/fam are so judgemental.
When people get nosy I just say its a 2 ct asscher for the main stone. and I don't go into the rest of the detail.
Is it me or is it weird if she wants to know down to my cut color clarity?
I like her a lot, but it makes me uncomfortable.