I have to be honest, I'm a bit discouraged at how negative and "snarky" (for a lack of a better term) some of these boards/threads can get. I don't really understand why -- when weddings are supposed to be filled with joy and love -- so many people seem so aggressive.
I have to say something: While I completely understand and respect that this is a place for help and to vent, I don't understand why so many people feel the need to resort to insults.
I know by posting this I am at risk of offending some people and this is absolutely not my intention. I just want to vocalize what I feel.